One thing that made the job tough were all the reminders of a life interrupted. I found the children’s schoolbags in one box, complete with their school work from their last day of school plus library and reading books (oops!). And while consolidating the boxes in one room keeps the rest of the house more or less under control and liveable, it also makes it much more challenging having so many boxes in one small space. I could barely get in my room, let alone start opening boxes in there! Most of what is in the room now is quilt / craft supplies. Yes, I am suitably horrified by how much fabric / thread / batting I have accumulated and hoarded over the years. But be proud of me: I haven’t opened a Keepsake Quilting email in months and have yet to visit the quilt store that is within walking distance of my house. Small steps.

I know there are things that I don’t actually need to have out now, but I have to unpack all the boxes to make sure that nothing is conspicuously missing and / or broken. So far, so good overall. However it’s not a lot of fun unpacking a box containing a jumble of magnets, pens, and sunglasses or boxes containing snarls of randoms electronics / computer cables. (Also, why do I have so many staplers and staples??) Also, just because there are toys on the top of the box, does not mean there won’t be some precious art object buried below. How the framed papyrus pictures – wrapped only in a sheet of paper and shoved in a box seemingly at random with toys and sporting equipment – did not break is nothing short of a miracle.

The harder part of this job is deciding what will stay and what will go. When we moved to Michigan and merged our lives, we had at least two kitchen’s worth of supplies and enough bed linens and towels to open a B&B. Do I simply keep what I want and sell the rest at a garage sale? Or does it make more sense to sort the extra bits into starter boxes for when the children move out? It can be expensive to buy all these things new and in many cases my old “vintage” hand-me-down kitchenware is better quality than what you can buy today anyway. Same goes with the linens. Have you seen what even halfway decent quality sheets cost these days?

Then there are things I want to keep for purely sentimental reasons. For instance, there are many books that my children have outgrown. It is quite easy to put some of them in the (ever growing) garage sale pile. Others, however, are special. I can practically recite some of them from memory because they were favorites. It doesn’t seem so very long ago that I was snuggling with a freshly bathed toddler reading these books every night at bedtime. How can I get rid of our copy of Goodnight Moon? Or the Mother Goose book, inscribed by my husband’s now late grandmother?

It is a similar scenario with toys. There are some toys it is easy to part with and others the decision is much more difficult. When the children were very small, I bought a few pieces of the Fisher Price Little People toys of my own youth on eBay and then brought them abroad with me in my suitcases. When we returned this year and were reunited with all of our things, it included the Fisher Price toys that my husband had kept from his childhood. We now have a Tudor house, two farms (with moo-ing doors), a Main Street, a Schoolhouse with bus, a plane, a yacht, and a castle – plus all the Little People, animals, furniture and many vehicles and other accessories. They are great toys, but our children have pretty much outgrown all these things. I’d kind of like to keep them because you can’t get them anymore, but they also take up a lot of storage space!

(This may not be much of a choice: Seeing that my husband has kept his toys for 40-odd years, I somehow doubt he’d be willing to part with them now!)

Because my own family moved frequently, I have very little left from my own childhood. There’s a part of me that would like to save all these things for my own children to look at later, and perhaps share with their children. On the other hand, that could be a long time from now! Given the nature of my life so far, I doubt that even if we buy a house in the next couple of month we’ll stay there forever. Do I really want to haul all this stuff around for the next twenty years or so?

In spite of all the angst and indecision, I have made some progress, though it wouldn’t really show in that hell room downstairs. I did find finally find my dining room table though.

Wonder how long I can keep it this way?

My landlord’s son advised us not to put our jack-o-lanterns out too soon in October because the squirrels in the neighborhood were known to attack them. I believe it – the squirrels in this area are some of the biggest, fattest squirrels I’ve ever seen. I totally believe that they would attack a pumpkin. I’ll bet they go down the street tipping over garbage cans on trash night too.

I wouldn’t be surprised if a gang of them ambushed a kid on the way home from the corner store for his or her junk food. Surely they can’t get so plump just eating acorns??

I’ve never seen a raccoon here but if they are around I’ll bet 1) the squirrels give them a run for their money and 2) the raccoons must be giants!

We have gray squirrels, red squirrels, and even a few black squirrels. But I looked out of my kitchen window yesterday and saw a squirrel like no other I’ve ever seen. Of course I had to get a picture.

Check out that red tail!

He was quite shy and it took me a while of standing very quietly to get his picture. Do you think the other squirrels tease him? Do squirrels have litters? I wonder if he has any brothers or sisters who have the same coloring or if he was the oddball? I haven’t seen any others with this coloring and I’m sure I would have noticed!

Mother Nature really does have a sense of humor.

I had to take my son to the doctor for a second time when he was since last month (where did January go, by the way??) We went to an urgent care facility because it was a weekend and ended up sitting in the waiting room for about an hour before we got in to see the doctor. Many other people were also waiting, including a young couple with a toddler. The toddler was not pleased by the waiting and was alternately running around and wailing. My son was watching the toddler and getting irritated by the crying. He made a few comments about the child and what he thought the parents ought to do, none of which were helpful or practical. Then he asked me “Where do babies come from anyway? I mean, do you just like get them randomly?”

I paused for a moment before I answered and in that short moment thought oh my god he wants to talk about that now and I want to tell him myself so he has good information and not whatever nonsense his friends might tell him but honestly I didn’t want to start that conversation at that time and place because I was sure that it would lead to more questions and possibly some strange faces. So, I calmly said, “I don’t really want to have that conversation here, in this waiting room.” He nodded, without protest, and then asked, “What’s your favorite food?” All that private panic because the boy was bored! (I haven’t heard a word about babies since.)

Over this weekend we had a family movie night and watched Freaky Friday with Jamie Lee Curtis and Lindsay Lohan (before she went nuts). The movie was cute and the kids enjoyed it. Afterwards, my daughter looked at me and said, “It would be easy being you – all I’d have to do is clean!” Um… I guess she hasn’t looked in that room full of boxes lately! If “all” I had to do was clean, that room wouldn’t look like that!

(I on the other hand wouldn’t go back to 6th grade for any amount of money – the girl drama this week has been insane and heart-wrenching to watch.)

Last night I made a stir fry for dinner and decided to try and entice my son into eating it (not his favorite dinner) by including fortune cookies at the end. We all chose our cookies and read our fortunes out loud. My daughter’s fortune was “You will soon discover your hidden talent.” My son looked at her and said, “You have a hidden talent?!?” The tone of his voice was so indignant, like she’d been keeping secrets from him.

In other news, the children have been such slobs in their “kid zone” downstairs, openly disregarding my absolutely no food downstairs rule that I took drastic action. After I had threatened to cancel the cable TV downstairs and then spent two hours cleaning up their space and still found food wrappers and bottles under the furniture and in the corners, I decided I could be sneaky too. I found their floor, organized all their things so they could actually find and use them, and then unplugged the cable wire and told them I’d cancelled service. They were fairly contrite and resigned when they came home from school and discovered the TV no longer worked. Their only question was for how long.

Frankly, they don’t seem to miss it much and I’m enjoying the silence. I might just cancel it for real. Having no TV has very effectively put a stop to the food smuggling too.

My goal this week is to do some more unpacking, and to clean off the dining room table. It is a good thing we have a kitchen table because the dining room? Out of control.

I am not a neat freak by any stretch, but this is ridiculous. When things get to this point, I can’t do anything creative – I can barely even think.

If my whole house looked this way, I’d be depressed. I’ve worked pretty hard to make sure that didn’t happen. Just take a look at the cozy corner I created for myself to write and relax.

Honestly, where would you rather spend your time? Can you blame me for preferring to sit in my red chair and dream rather than deal with all the other stuff?

As much as I love yoga, I rarely do it at home on my own. I need a class to keep me going. When I was in Cairo, I even had an instructor who would send me texts if I missed a class! Going to class is great because 1) there is variety and feedback in a class that you don’t get from a DVD, 2) I work out for longer and do positions that I might avoid if I were working out alone, and 3) I always push myself harder in class.

A lot of people profess they love yoga because it’s so relaxing, and it is. I’ll admit that I go to yoga class and compete with the others in class.

I know it’s not a very yogic attitude, but I want to be the best yogi in the room. I am not always the most flexible because of my lower back issues, but I want to be the strongest, hold my balance the longest, and do the most challenging of the pose options available. My approach does not exactly promote my inner peace and harmony quotient but it does usually end up giving me a heck of a workout.

Just in case you think I’m the only sick puppy comparing myself to others, a couple of times I have had people come up after class and compliment me and ask me how long I’ve been doing yoga because they’ve obviously been checking me out too. One of my proudest moments was when I inspired yoga-envy in a couple of young women in their mid-twenties by holding the plank pose for longer than they could.

I could claim that I was giving them something to aspire to, but in fact I realize that I’m slightly twisted. Slightly twisted and fairly strong.

And very, very competitive…

There are some things you are supposed to do to prepare for Chinese New Year – one is thoroughly clean your house on Chinese New Year’s Eve. Hmmm… I did a bunch of laundry on Sunday but I didn’t do much else. Then on Chinese New Year’s day you are not supposed to sweep and are in fact supposed to put all brooms away – the idea is that you might sweep away your good luck.

Well, I totally missed out on that one.

It all started when I was shifting things in my kitchen around. I reclaimed a previously forgotten, empty, LARGE drawer, which freed up a good bit of shelf space in a cabinet, which in turn freed up another shelf in another cabinet, which is where I decided to stow my cast iron skillets which had been living on the stove top and were generally in the way when not in use. After I’d moved the skillets, I was wiping off the stove top and saw a drip going over the side. I decided to pull the stove out a bit to wipe the drip up in the interest of being tidy and also because the stove is the last place I saw the mouse last month.

Back in December, I put some trays of poison here and there where I thought a mouse (rat??) might have gotten in and also tossed a few cubes into the garage to keep the buggers out of my car engine. Each tray is about 4″ square and maybe 3/4″ deep. The one in the laundry room looks untouched, as does the one under the sink. I decided to check the one under the oven as long as I had it pulled out.

It was ENTIRELY EMPTY.

OMG OMG OMG. You know how you read historical novels and people just faint? I’ve always wondered about that, but I swear I could feel my blood pressure shoot up. How on earth could that whole tray be empty and yet we’ve seen no dead bodies? Even if it had carried all those pellets away to its nest, surely it would have gotten some in its system if it was carrying them in its cheek? I assume it didn’t have a little backpack!

I’m not a huge fan of poison, but I’m also not a huge fan of the idea of wounding a mouse in a trap – or even cleaning up a “good” kill. (A friend of mine told me a hideous story of setting a trap for a rat in NY and hearing the trap “snap” and then being dragged away!) I truly hope that the mouse / rat took all that poison back to his little rat home outside my house and shared the bounty with his extended family. I contemplated getting some expanding foam and sealing around the outlet for the stove, where I assume they are getting in. Instead I decided to sweep the floor of crumbs from my son and put down a fresh tray of poison in the known hot spot, along with a twist (disposable) trap filled with peanut butter.

So I admit I swept and I took out the trash, both bad luck things to do on Chinese New Year, but neither the dust nor the trash has technically left the house yet. Also, I took a shower but I skipped washing my hair – another bad luck thing to do on Chinese New Year. Maybe I have half a chance of having a decent year after all.

If declaring war on a mouse / rat is considered an auspicious thing to do in the Year of the Dragon, that is…

While I suppose I am glad we haven’t had any truly bad, record-breaking, storm-of-the-century blizzards or ice storms (yet) this year, this weather is kind of getting on my nerves.

I grew up in Louisiana and the winters there are fairly mild overall. There were some cold days – and cold down there might only mean 30sF but also humid and raw, the kind of cold that really gets into your bones. But the biggest annoyance was the constant temperature fluctuations. You just never knew what you were going to get from day to day. One day it would be 30F and frost and the next 70F and breezy. You’d get all excited about wearing a new sweater and then it might be shelved for a week or two – or until next winter – when the weather turned warm on you. I can remember being keenly disappointed one Christmas because it was clear blue skies and sunny. It just seemed so wrong.

It was much the same in the Middle East. Winter in Cairo mostly meant 60F/40F, with a handful of rainy days thrown in. Sitting outside in the evenings watching tennis lessons was no joy, but for the most part winter was short-lived and not a big deal. I used to get excited when it rained in winter because it gave me that “winter” feeling – which I supposed harkened back to those Louisiana days.

I expected Michigan to be different. I expected to have clearly defined seasons and that once it got cold it would just be cold, end of story. I didn’t expect this yo-yo-ing temperature – or that it would make so much difference to me if it was 15F or 40F. I think I’m going native because at 40F I feel overdressed wearing a coat.

I suppose that I’m tempting fate by complaining about a mild winter so maybe I ought to shut up now.

The children seem to be on the mend. Both had confirmed cases of strep throat and I took my son back to the doctor this weekend for a cough – turns out that he has a nasty head cold on top of the strep. Regardless, they are going back to school tomorrow. I’ve been rather blah myself the last few days. I haven’t felt sick precisely, just low energy. I took a few days off from the boxes while everyone was home but am hoping to make another big push at it this week. I’ve probably gone through about 2/3 at this point. It’s funny because everyone said that it would be the stuff from our storage unit that we’d want to sell / purge. So far it’s mostly the stuff coming from Cairo!

Right now it’s 8am and still dark outside. I think I’ll curl up next to my fake woodstove and read for a while before I get started…

I’ve had two children home sick from school all week. For once, I followed my instincts and took them to the doctor sooner than later and it was a good thing I did because they both had strep throat. They are both on antibiotics now and have a four day weekend over which to fully recover (and catch up on all their homework).

I myself have spent most of the week washing my hands, washing clothes, fetching snacks and drinks for my patients, and continuing to unpack boxes. I can finally see some progress! In spite of the poor condition of many of the boxes, most of the contents made it just fine – with a few notable exceptions. I found a second pottery piece that broke in transit, this time the lovely mask I made. (Right along the hairline, where a crack had developed in the glaze firing) I found a loose handful of change wrapped up in a wad of paper the size of a softball, but the mask only rated a couple of sheets of paper. Sigh.

However, in the spirit of opening myself to the wisdom and power of the Universe, I’ve decided to look for the positive sides of these situations. With regard to the sick children, at least they were both sick at the same time which (I hope) means they will return to school simultaneously as well. And having them both get sick (a fairly rare occurrence) prompted me to finally find a family doctor who was accepting new patients – not that I was able to get in to see him this time, but I’ll be ready for next time.

As for my pottery, I was whining about mentioned it on Facebook, and a friend of mine from Cairo wrote me a message: his MIL lives in a city about 20 minutes away from me and not only is she a garage sale / thrift store fiend (like me!) but she is also a potter. He gave me her email and said she might be able to help me repair my broken pieces. How is that for the Universe providing a solution to a problem?

So why did I pop awake at 3am this morning, the one morning this week when school is closed and I knew I didn’t have to get up? You could say that the Universe was trying to gift me with some quiet time to get a bit of writing done before the usual distractions of the day begin. Or you could just assume the Universe has a sense of humor…

I’m still working on unpacking boxes and so far so good for the most part. It’s amazing how much trash you can manage to stash away in the corners and closets of your home just in case. Having just spent several thousand dollars to ship empty appliance boxes, plastic grocery bags, rag clothes, and expired medications ask me how I know.

I have been working my way through things, box by box. Some things I need to unwrap just to see if they made it okay and am just as quickly putting them back in their boxes for now. Most things made it just fine, however the couple of things I have found that broke so far were very wrenching. One was a large ceramic plate that goes with a beautiful Vietnamese tea set that I bought in the Russian Market in Phnom Penh, Cambodia. The other casualty was the large pottery lizard I made myself in Cairo. Why on earth they thought it would be okay to stand it on end on its tail – the most vulnerable part of the entire piece – is a mystery to me. Ironically, another large plate that matched the dishes which were part of our furnished apartment made it just fine, though in fact it ought to have stayed behind. Oh well.

I’ve also had two sick children home this week. When my son told me he didn’t feel well on Monday morning, I was skeptical. He’d been just fine all weekend when it came to birthday parties and a sleepover so it seemed a little convenient that he’d be sick just in time for school. As it turned out, he wasn’t faking. After he had a fever for the second day running and his throat became so sore he found it painful to speak, I took them both to the doctor. The doctor suspects strep throat. I’m hoping that I can nip it in the bud in my daughter’s case, but it looks as if they will be home for the remainder of the week.

While I was at the store waiting for their prescriptions to be filled, I took a spin around and found some raspberries on the discount rack. I love raspberries. I decided to buy these to make a raspberry sauce. Since we still have a few carrot cup-cakes in the freezer from my birthday last week (with frosting in the fridge) I was thinking of sticking the raspberry sauce in the freezer and keeping it for Valentine’s Day when I could make a shortcake to go with it. Having taken a look in my stuffed-to-the-gills freezer I think I’ve gotten way far ahead of myself! Perhaps I should just make some waffles instead.

Anything to get away from boxes for a while…

Why, for instance, do I have so many clothes??? Sure, there are seasons and different occasions, blah blah blah, but even accounting for that, I have way to many. Just because they still fit does not mean I have to keep them all! And I haven’t even gotten to my shoes or purses yet.

(I strive to be one of those super practical European-types with twelve fabulous mix and match pieces that they accessorize with nothing more than a scarf. As if!)

The children have pretty much outgrown all the clothes that were shipped for them so I stashed them in a couple of empty suitcases for a spring garage sale. I’d like to do the same with my own clothes, but the problem with sorting them at present is I barely have space to move in my work room. If I take them out of the boxes, where would I put them anyway?

The children have “helped” unpack their toys by taking everything out of the boxes and spreading everything all over every available inch of floor space that they can find in their “zone”. I know they are happy to see their things after so long a time – which is the only reason I put up with the mess for even a day – but enough is enough. I’m already mentally setting prices on all the plastic animals and dinosaurs, all the magnetic building sticks and balls, all the castle pieces. Why sell them? Because while the children are happy to spread them out, guess who ends up picking everything up again? The children will probably resist selling things – until I offer to let them keep the money from the sales. I’m tricky like that.

I did find my red Circle of Life quilt as well as all the others – one box marked “toys” contained toys and four of my quilts! I’ll be happy to get back to working on finishing up my red quilt as soon as I have restored some order to my home and find my sewing box…