I have always been interested in psychology and trying to figure out what makes people tick. It’s one of the reasons I love to take those goofy personality tests on Blogthings (that,and because they’re fun!) So even though I’m married, I still enjoy reading articles that have to do with dating and relationships. Anything that gives me insight into the male psyche is a good thing.
I read a couple of articles this morning that appealed to the writer in me. One of the cardinal rules of writing is “show don’t tell”. Rather than writing “Raoul found Maria very attractive” try “Raoul felt his heartbeat quicken as he gazed at Maria’s lovely face.” (Poor examples, but you get the idea.) How better to do that within the pages of a story than by using body language? What does it mean when he kisses you on the cheek when saying goodbye? Does he pull his ear or rub his nose when he’s telling you where he was last night? (If so, watch out!)
I used a horoscope profile when I created the character of Ben in ONE CRAZY SUMMER – he was a Scorpio through and through. But there are other ways to convey the sort of character you are dealing with. I thought the observations contained in this article would be another great way to think about creating well rounded characters, both male and female.
Finally, scientists and dairy farmers in the UK have found that cows with names produce more milk. Seems that they prefer a little personal attention. Why should this be such a surprise? Don’t all living things thrive with a bit of TLC?
Great articles thanks for the heads up.
by AKelsey January 28th, 2009 at 4:26 amLoved the post.
by Amber Harp January 29th, 2009 at 9:50 pmYeah, Ben in “One Crazy Summer” is rather intense…..but then I’m married to a Scorpio and have one Scorpio son. We Gemini’s make them truly crazy.
by Susan February 1st, 2009 at 5:09 pm