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Monday, July 14th, 2008
Postcards from the Past

My husband brought home a bag of postcards from work a while ago. They’d been donated to the library but the library had no use for them – there aren’t rare or collectible. I looked through the bag eagerly. I love old postcards.

This bag was a treasure. Most aren’t dated, but are probably from within the last twenty years or so. I was happy to discover there were duplicates of many of my favorites. What fun it will be to finally send these on their way somewhere!

I picked out a few of my favorites to share with you. It seemed fitting as I’m traveling now and will likely be sending a few postcards myself. Not sure if I’ll use these this time…I’m tempted to frame some of them. I only wish I could see the original art work from which these were produced.

(Click on any of the images below to see a larger version.)

Old Cairo

“Old Cairo” by Camilia El Madani
pastel on paper

Old Cairo

Sabil-kuttab of Ruqayya Duda, 1761
from Robert Hay’s Illustrations of Cairo

Portrait of Bab Zuweila, Cairo

Minarets of El Monayyad Mosque, Bab Zuweilah, Cairo
by Owen B. Carter

Painting of Temple of Karnak

Temple of Karnak

Painting of Nile at Luxor Temple

The Nile and Luxor Temple


These last three I liked because they were so bright and cheerful. I can’t read the writing on the backs of the cards but I assume they are from Pakistan. There were groupings of cards from different places and these two seemed to fit best with the Pakistan group. (Please correct me if I’m wrong!)


Colorful drawing of mosque in Pakistan
(This one has a dull gold metallic background)


Colorful art postcard from Pakistan


This last one made me smile. We saw many a large truck in the United Arab Emirates decorated in a similar way, driven by Pakistani drivers…


decorative donkey cart in Pakistan

Friday, July 11th, 2008
Friday Feature: Candace Sams

Satyr book cover by Candace Sams
CANDACE SAMS (also writing as C. S. Chatterly) graduated from Texas A&M University with a BS in agriculture. She worked as a police officer with the State of Texas, the San Diego Police Department, and in a teaching capacity for the San Diego County Sheriff’s Department. Candace is the senior woman on the US Kung Fu Team (three black belts), and has been awarded the Medal of Putien and the Statue of Tao by the Chinese Martial Arts Confederation in Quanzhou, China. She holds international martial arts titles, and is an award-winning fiction author. Contact her through her web site.


Satyr
~ Sixth Book in the Tales of the Order series ~
by Candace Sams

Since his wife died, Soland Leigh’s daughter Autumn has been his whole world. Now, though, the time has come for him to step up and behave like the leader of the Satyrs that he is. The Order (of magical creatures) has acquired additional acreage next to their forest and it’s up to Soland to make the new land habitable.

The only person Kyndall Taylor trusts is Lady Anna, her elderly employer. But lately Anna’s behavior has been strange—she has gifted all her land to a strange woman called Shayla and replaced her staff with a steady stream of odd people from deep in the forest. One such character is Soland. When Kyndall is assigned to care for Autumn while Soland works on the land, the two adults find common ground—and a growing mutual attraction. But Soland is very secretive, too…and the Sorceress seems to have plans of her own

Satyr
Excerpt

As Kyndall kept walking and considering her fate, the sun slipped farther into the horizon. The sound of a car engine halted her progress. Two headlights could be seen coming up the drive. And she knew from past experience exactly to whom the old truck belonged.

“Oh great!” she muttered to herself. “Not them again.” The truck came to a shuttering halt about forty feet in front of her. Two fat, balding men got out of the cab and one who was even larger jumped out of the bed. Since it was far too late to hide in the brush or obscure herself some other way, Kyndall stood her ground. Bullies were no new experience. She’d dealt with them all her life.

“Well, well. Fancy seein’ the lovely Ms. Taylor out for a nice evenin’ walk. Eh, m’ lads?”

Kyndall pasted on her fiercest expression, one she’d been told could melt steel. “What do you want, Ed? The constable has told you to stay off Lady Dunnemore’s land.”

“We ain’t hurtin’ nothin’. Just out for a bit of a drive. Lady Dunnemore wouldn’t begrudge some folks from town a small thing like that, now would she?”

She knew the men were circling her. Ed and his brothers were nothing but cowards. But she also knew she could handle it. She’d dealt with much worse. “Something tells me you aren’t out for just a drive, Ed.”

“Ohhhh, you ‘ear that, m’ lads? Ms. Taylor don’t think we’re out drivin’.” Ed heard his brothers laugh and he continued. “It’s a shame a lovely piece like you ‘as got nothin’ better to do than look after an old woman and walk up and down roads at night. All by ‘erself.” He paused to move closer. “Now if you was to be more friendly like, m’ brothers and me could show you a better time than what you gets ‘ere.”

“Why do I doubt that?” Kyndall snorted and looked the men up and down in the most arrogant fashion she could muster. “You can’t even spell what you want to do.”

“Now don’t be that way, m’ pretty. Once we get better acquainted, you’d like me an’ my brothers right well. In fact, you could call it a bit o’ diplomacy. Brits and Americans. Good old chums, we are.” He moved very close to her, picked up a strand of long red-brown hair and stroked it with his thumb.

Kyndall immediately slapped his hand away with one hand, then backhanded him in the face with the other. “Touch me again, and I’ll break your ignorant neck.”

A sound from the back of the truck caught Kyndall’s attention. Something was thrashing about as though it was unused to being where it was. Before Ed could recover or move to block her way, Kyndall walked past him to the bed of the pickup. She threw a tarp off an old wire cage and looked inside.

“You son of a bitch!” She immediately opened the door to the cage and let the large hare inside jump from its confinement and straight to freedom. It ran into the nearby woods as fast as its paws could move it. Kyndall immediately stalked back to where Ed stood, still rubbing his face. His brothers were laughing uproariously at his expense. “Don’t you ever catch another animal on Dunnemore land again, or I’ll cut your balls off!” She pushed him backward to make her point then walked past him.

Angered by the threat to his masculinity and of being spoken to in such a way by a woman, Ed grabbed her arm as she started to walk away. He opened his mouth to speak, but never saw the very large fist hurtling toward the middle of his face. He landed on his back a good ten feet away, while his brothers backed up and scrambled to help their sibling off the ground.

Soland planted his feet firmly, ready for a counterattack. “You’re on land that doesn’t belong to you. And the woman has already told you once to keep your hands off her.” He ground his teeth, clenched his fists and hoped the idiot would get up and try something. It had been a long time since he’d fought anyone other than for sport. And beating an outsider would please him no end. Especially a poacher. As far as he was concerned, they were among the lowest life forms on Earth. His blood boiled at the thought of innocent animals being frightened and trapped by men who didn’t give a damn about the pain the creature would suffer before death. Poachers often used traps that were as cruel as anything he’d ever seen. But that was the way of outsiders.

Ed backed up, blood spewing from his injured nose. “You’ll ‘ear from us again,” he promised as his brothers hauled him toward the truck. “It ain’t over.”

Kyndall watched as the truck backed up, turned in the narrow road and headed away at a fast clip. She expelled a deep breath and turned to face her unwanted ally. “Thanks for the help, but I can take care of…” she stopped. Whatever she might have said floated off to infinity, never to be uttered. Before her was the largest man she’d ever seen in her life. At least six feet, six inches tall, he had shoulders as wide as the Hoover Dam, a narrow waist and long brown hair that had been tied back and fell over one shoulder to the middle of his chest. Looking him over quickly, she saw hands that could have easily broken Ed’s neck with a simple snap. His blue cambric work shirt, jeans and hiking boots hugged his massive body like sandwich wrap. There wasn’t much of his defined musculature that was left to the imagination. And nothing she could have imagined would have been more ruggedly, ungodly handsome.

Soland arched one brow and looked the tall, slender woman up and down. In the evening sunset, her eyes were an unholy aqua color. They almost glowed in the evening light. Straight auburn hair fell from a side part to just below her shoulders. She had a face very like the models he’d seen in magazine ads. Her high cheekbones, full lips and strikingly fair complexion were all flawless. It was a countenance that could turn a man inside out with desire. And she had guts but absolutely no sense. “You have a nice backhand, woman. But you might want to be careful when you choose to use it.”

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Thursday, July 10th, 2008
It’s never too early to start…

One of the things I think is an important part of motherhood is teaching your children the skills they will need to be independent, well-adjusted, functional adults one day. You know, little things like how to do laundry and basic cooking skills. My daughter is only just shy of 8 and my son is 5 but you can never start too early with these things – especially since they still think this stuff is fun.

(And if I get a little cheap domestic help during the course of their training, who can blame me? They are legal citizens and besides — I MADE them.)

I recently started paying my daughter to do a few simple things : make her bed in the morning, put her dirty clothes in the hamper and put her shoes away. Some may call the allowance she earns a bribe, but I prefer to think of it as part two of the life lesson – money management. With the pittance she makes she’s getting a bonus lesson of delayed gratification in the process.

She should be thanking me for all this wisdom.

My son has more of an affinity for the kitchen. I think it’s all the buttons and knobs and potential for noise. What is it about men and gadgets? Even at his tender age, he’s mastered the microwave and likes to turn the knob on the food processor (with proper supervision of course!).

One lesson that has been difficult for the little man to grasp is that he doesn’t actually need to take a new cup every time he wants a drink of water. I’ve tried to explain to him that he can simply keep the same cup and use it again and he looks at me in puzzlement and says, “huh?” Maybe if I told him he could store it in the microwave between uses it would sink in better?

Neither one of them can seem to remember to flush the toilet consistently either, but I digress…

The other lesson my son found a bit above his head was making ice. What is it about ice that confounds so many people? It’s a simple recipe : fill tray with water and put in freezer. I’m going to keep working on that one though. Honestly, how many of you out there wish your mother-in-law had driven that (or any of these) lesson(s) home?

Stop by over the weekend and say hello to fellow author Candace Sams, here with an excerpt of her book Satyr. I’m going to sneak away on Saturday to embark on my summer “vacation” (truly, I won’t get any rest until school starts again!), but never fear! I’ll be popping in from time to time and the Friday Features will continue all summer.

Have a wonderful weekend!

Wednesday, July 9th, 2008
Welcome to My World

LOL kittens


This is pretty much what it’s been like at my house since school ended for the summer. Just so you know, if the issue is ever raised, I’m all for a year round school year.

Still, the bickering is preferable to the girl-drama that has been going on around here. There are three little girls in our building, in addition to my own DD – ages 8 & 9. Ideally, the two oldest and the two youngest would pair up and they’d all be happy and entertained. But you know that reality rarely works that way.

Instead what tends to happen is that one little girl defects and goes and plays either on her own or with a little boy. And two others compete for the affection and attention of the third (and oldest). Which always leads to trouble.

Lately, it’s been my DD who has been on the outs with them. It’s been a few weeks since she’s spent much time with any of them and I’m okay with that. Before, she would come home ranting about how she hated this one or that one – or crying because someone had said something nasty to her and excluded her from their play.

I try very hard not to get involved in these dramas, however angry it makes me to see DD hurt. They need to figure out how to deal with things themselves without parental interference. Also, what usually happens is they’ve long gotten over whatever the problem was and I’m still ticked off. If I were to involve myself the only thing that would happen is that I’d be on the outs with all their mothers.

It’s been harder to ignore recently though – particularly when the “in” girls add petty vandalism to their bag of tricks. Nothing they have done – so far – has been such a big deal. But what they don’t realize is that the items they are damaging are things that *I* bought and paid for so I have an interest in putting a stop to it.

So I did what I had to do. I told their mommies on them.

Girls can be such a pain in the butt with all their head games and cliquishness. (I know, I was a little girl once). This is one area where I think a man’s approach is better. Just slug ‘em and get over it…

Monday, July 7th, 2008
Women’s Intuition?

Do you have an inner voice? One that talks to you and gives you glimpses of what will happen next? I’m not claiming psychic power – nothing as powerful as that. What would you the small-time flashes I experience? Intuition?

My voice never tells me anything truly useful like a lottery number. But often someone will spring to mind and I’ll think, “hmmm…I haven’t heard from X in a while, I should call/email them” and within minutes that person will either call or pop into my inbox.

I took my children to a July 4th party sponsored by the US Embassy in Cairo over the weekend. Upon entering the grounds, everyone was assigned a wristband – for security reasons and also a door prize. During the first round of door prizes awarded, they called out each prize before they called the winning number. One prize up for grabs was a year’s membership to a local Curves gym. I thought to myself “just what I need – if I won that I’d never have an excuse not to exercise again!”

Who do you think won that prize??(!!)

Sometimes I get sudden flashes of accidents that might occur. Like a few months ago when I was in the kitchen at dinner time chopping ears of corn in half. I thought to myself, “self, you better be careful or you’ll cut off your finger”. I apparently didn’t heed my own warning because moments later I chopped a significant chunk off the end of my index finger – and I have the scar to prove it.

I’m getting better about heeding the flashes of insight as they occur – particularly when they relate to an injury that might befall my children. What about you guys? I don’t often hear men claiming flashes of insight like these – is it really just a woman thing?

Monday, July 7th, 2008
Finished!

I finished Gone with the Wind over the weekend. What can I say except WOW.

What. A. Great. Book.

I’m not going to say that I didn’t still get tripped up by a few technical glitches here and there, but once things got going, I just couldn’t put the book down. Scarlett is such a wonderful anti-hero. She is awful and selfish and rude to everyone around her, has no insight into human nature at all – hers or anyone else’s – and yet at the end I was still rooting for her to get Rhett back. It’s not easy to create a character like that.

Normally when I finish a book that I really enjoy, I immediately turn back to page one and start over again. This book is too long and I have too many other things on my TBR pile at the moment for me to start over with Gone with the Wind.

But it definitely has a place on my keeper shelf.

Friday, July 4th, 2008
Friday Feature: Kate Dolan

The Appearance of Impropriety by Kate Dolan
To the Discerning Reader Who Has Sought Out This Website,

I believe you were expecting to read correspondence from Kate Dolan, who writes Regency romances as well as other books that are not worth mentioning.

However, while she was supposed to be preparing this message, she was actually on holiday, traveling to a region of the southern United States known as Louisiana, where she consumed entirely too many intoxicating beverages. This was a family affair from what I understand, though whether it is Kate who is a bad influence on her family or the other way around is not clear. In any event, I believe she is in no condition to be communicating with the public. Therefore, I have decided to step in and take her place.

My name is Helen Wright. I can see you raise an eyebrow, so do not deny it. I fully realize it is improper for a young lady to introduce herself to strangers, but I must admit that I don’t care a whit.

And to be honest, no one else will care, since I am never invited out. I believe most people are afraid of me because I care more for science than appearances. My friend Sophie is concerned that I might set my tucker aflame with one of my combustion experiments. Or so she says. I think she wants me to stop setting fires in my room because of the smell.

Or was it the smell of mold she objected to? I cannot remember. I keep telling her there is much to be learned, but I see from the disapproval in her eyes that she does not believe me.

She is reading this over my shoulder and says she does believe me and that it is the maids, and not her, who keeps throwing out my collection of moldy toast rinds.

I tell her to go back to writing to her sweetheart and she makes a face at me because the letter she writes is not to him but to her aunt. I believe she and her sweetheart are after having a row about something he either did or did not say to her satisfaction. The two of them are forever arguing over something but I suspect they will marry each other anyway, just to spite Sophie’s parents.

Oh, dear. Sophie’s mother has just come to inform us that we must leave off with our correspondence and tell our maids what to pack for a journey to the country.
It seems that Sophie was not quick enough with her letter, and her aunt has already ceased to be among those capable of reading letters.

That is not the reason we travel to the country, of course. But Mrs. Bayles had been waiting on her sister during her illness, and now that the esteemed aunt has finally died, after rehearsing for the occasion so many times, Mrs. Bayles is back home and ready to set out.

I believe we travel to the home of some friends that nobody seems to know very well to meet a suitor whom nobody knows at all. He’s a baronet, so the family wishes to attach one of their daughters to him before he changes his mind. I do not think Sophie will be too amenable…

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Helen Wright is the frustrated “bridesmaid” (friend or sister of the heroine and not likely to get her own book) of the Cerridwen Cotillion Regency romances A Certain Want of Reason and The Appearance of Impropriety by Kate Dolan. Although Helen has complained that she never gets to tell a story from her point of view, the author believes that Helen would not actually enjoy being a romance heroine, as it might involve kissing a young man.

The Appearance of Impropriety
by
Kate Dolan

Blurb

When Sophie Bayles inadvertently ruins a young man’s chance for employment, she sets out to find him a new position. Even though he doesn’t want her to.

With the war over, Lieutenant Heyward Elliott needs work. The job hunt is made no easier by the meddling of Sophie, who is all smiles and helpfulness one minute and snobby and argumentative the next. Complicating matters is her constant companion Helen, a strange young lady with a propensity to drop eggs on people in the name of science.

Sophie tries to do the right thing, but gets all the wrong results. Her attempts to find employment for Lieutenant Elliott produce one disaster after another, until he finally orders her never to help him again. But when he is arrested on false charges, she and Helen at last see a way to even the score, by clearing his name and reputation.

Unless they lose their own in the process…

The Appearance of Impropriety

Excerpt:

“Did that make it better or worse?” Helen asked as they settled back against the cold seats of the carriage. The glass in the lantern rattled and the flame of the candle jerked as the coach started forward.

“I’m sorry?” Sophie had no idea what she was talking about. Well, actually, if Helen was thinking about the same thing that she was, then she knew exactly what Helen was talking about. But Helen was never thinking the same thing as anyone else.

She leaned forward, her breath leaving a faint cloud that hung between them. “Your fascination with Lieutenant Elliott. Has it increased now or was the kiss sufficient to satisfy your curiosity?”

“Helen! Y-you said you would not tell anyone.”

“And so I will not. I am merely asking you a question.”

“Yes.”

“That response was not specific enough to sufficiently answer the question.”

“I know.”

Helen sat back in her seat with a sigh of exasperation, her lips drawn together in a thin line. “You must decide, Sophie. Either we help the lieutenant tonight or you put him from your mind and let him get on with his life without you.”

“You make it sound as if I have a negative effect on his life. Well, I suppose I have in the past, but I can improve things for him, I know I can.”

Helen shook her head. “I saw the look on his face when we left. You can make things much worse for him.”

“Oh no, it was nothing. A momentary indiscretion. The heat in the room.”

“It was freezing in there.”

“That’s just it. The lack of heat forced us to do something that we would not have otherwise… It was a momentary lapse of reason.”

“An experiment of sorts?”

“Exactly.”

“The man is not a toast rind, Sophie. Do not repeat that experiment again.”

Sophie squirmed in her seat. Why did Helen suddenly feel the need to defend the lieutenant? After all, it was her modesty that had been compromised.

Or was it? She could not really be certain who had moved first. He was so close and then it just happened, like a storm cloud spilling over with rain. Something that could not be stopped.

Why would it be so terrible to try it again? Helen always repeated her experiments numerous times. And she was fairly certain her own experiment had been much more enjoyable.

Was it indeed just an experiment? Or did she want to kiss the man because she was falling in love with him? And what good would it do to love a man should could never marry?

She started to squirm in her seat again. “Ahem. Helen, why did you say we must help the lieutenant tonight? Surely we will need time to plan what we intend to do.”

“So you’ve decided then?” Helen had a warning look in her eyes. “The lieutenant will not simply be an experiment for you? A charitable project?”

“Y-yes, of course.” The hairs on the back of her neck pricked up. What was Helen suggesting? That in order to help the man she needed to make some sort of commitment to him? Were not finding him employment or clearing his name of false charges admirable enough goals on their own? Any sort of personal commitment—the word “engagement” screamed through her mind—was really out of the question. It was inconceivable. His station was so far below hers that she had not even considered the matter.

Not seriously, anyway.

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Thursday, July 3rd, 2008
Lookout Below!

Ripening mangos on a mango tree

The mango tree at the neighborhood recreational facility is heavy with fruit. If you look closely, you can see the first blush of red on them. There are tables arranged in the shade the tree provides, but these days you sit there at your own risk.

Ever been hit in the head by a mango?

I have to say that though my children dearly love mangoes, I’ve never really learned how to deal with them. I’ve bought them a time or two and never been able to satisfactorily serve them. I see other people serve them in cubes or slices. I think I wait until they are too ripe. Mine always come out as mush.

Instead, I’ve always bought mango juice. It’s pretty thick stuff on its own, often pouring with large chunks. I like to put it in a blender with some orange juice to thin it down a bit. Or freeze it in an ice tray and use it as thickener for a smoothie.

But in light of the bumper crop before me, I think I figure out how to deal with them. They are quite tempting, aren’t they?

Please stop by this weekend and say hello to author Kate Dolan who will be here this weekend with her historical romance The Appearance of Impropriety. You won’t want to miss the excerpt – it sounds wonderful!
mango ripening on a tree

Wednesday, July 2nd, 2008
Procrastination taken to new levels…

Interesting facts about Gone With The Wind:

* The novel won the Pulitzer Prize in 1936.The book sold more than fifty thousand copies in a single day, was a bestseller for two years, and, by 1965, had sold more than 12 million authorized copies.
(from http://www.answers.com/topic/gone-with-the-wind)

* It is the only novel by Margaret Mitchell published during her lifetime, and it took her ten years to write it. The novel is one of the most popular books of all time, selling more than 30 million copies
(from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gone_with_the_Wind)

* and it continues to sell 250,000 paperback copies in the United States each year.
(from http://www.answers.com/topic/gone-with-the-wind-novel-6)

* At home all day by herself, Margaret Mitchell occupied much of her time with reading. Regularly, her husband stopped by the library to pick up a book for her. One day, John informed his wife that she had read every book in the library, including the medical journals. Presenting her with a typewriter, he suggested she write her own book.

* Margaret wrote the last chapter of the book first.

* When it went to the publisher, Gone With The Wind had no first chapter.

* Margaret Mitchell first called the Scarlett character “Pansie.”

* The working title to Gone With The Wind was, “Tomorrow Is Another Day,” but another book at that time already had the title.

* Margaret endured much at the hands of her adoring fans. Once, a man from Tennessee appeared at her door, urgently needing to know if Scarlett and Rhett ever got back together again. His wife sent him with orders not to return without an answer for her bridge club!
(from http://www.rvfreewheelin.com/gwtw.htm)

I’m still reading Gone With the Wind, and I admit that I haven’t gotten very far. It’s a LONG book! My edition has 1011 pages. I’ve just passed page 150.

Clearly this is an award winning classic that has been adored by millions of people over the years. It won a Pulitzer for heaven’s sake! I know that when I read it, I’m judging it by more modern writing standards. Still, I can’t help but edit the book in my head (Who do I think I am I anyway?)

I’ve probably been ruined by the fact that I’ve seen the movie a couple of times, but as I’m reading I find myself thinking get on with it already! The action in the first couple of chapters is interrupted by long character sketches of Scarlett’s mother, father, suitors – just about anyone she comes into contact with really. I can only imagine what my own critique partner / editor would say if I tried something like that. “Show, don’t tell!”, “Can’t you introduce this information little by little throughout the story?” and “Information dump!”

Another problem that jumps out at me is the ever shifting point of view (POV) Most of the time it is an omniscient narrator which slips in and out of Scarlett’s head, but there is a paragraph here and there where we’ll suddenly pop into the head of whoever Scarlett is talking to. It might not bother someone who is just reading the story, but as an author, I sometimes find it difficult to ignore the technical aspects of writing. And things like ever shifting POV and excessive backstory really pull me out of the fantasy. I’m all about character development and long books don’t daunt me, nor do classics, but I have yet to lose myself in this story. I’m going to soldier on though. (get it? The Civil War? Soldiers? har har)

Aside from all of the above, Scarlett is a real twit. As I was reading about Gone With the Wind, I saw somewhere that Margaret Mitchell really wrote Melanie as the heroine of the book. She’s a little too insipid for my taste…but then again she’s got almost 1000 pages to improve.

The truth is, it’s always easier to edit someone else’s book than it is to edit your own. Actually, it would be fascinating to get a digital copy of this book and really take it apart and see how it turned out – and how long it would be in the end. Hmmm…

Okay – you caught me, I’m procrastinating again…

Tuesday, July 1st, 2008
Let the Music Play

I’ve been thinking about music on and off ever since we moved to Egypt – or rather, the lack of it in my life. When I’m writing, I have to have silence, so most of my musical experience was from listening to the radio in the car. Thing is, we don’t have a car anymore.

I’ve mentioned it before, but the radio here in Cairo for western music is really not worth listening to. I have a few CDs I listen to (over and over and over again) while I’m quilting, but that’s usually while the kids are in school. And since my own musical tastes run to rock, alternative, and grunge, once again many of the lyrics are not necessarily child-friendly.

I’m beginning to worry that I’m stunting my children’s growth in popular culture. Thinking back to my own childhood, I can always remember music and even now hearing certain songs will transport me back in time. I can remember sitting in the back of my parent’s giant Chevy Impala (no seatbelt!) and hearing “50 Ways to Leave your Lover” by Paul Simon and “Rhinestone Cowboy” by Glen Campbell on the radio, Olivia Newton John’s “Please Mister Please” brings back memories of summer road trips to see my grandparents, and “Grease (is the word)” was very popular the summer I rode the bus to summercamp.

My own mother would listen to music when she did housework on the weekend. She had a turntable with a very long center stick on which she would put a stack of albums, each dropping down as the last one finished. I listened to what she listened to and as a result I have a vast warehouse of lyrics by Kenny Rodgers, The Oak Ridge Boys, and Tom Jones. I also developed quite a crush on Elvis as a child. I wept buckets when he died.

When I was a little older and had money of my own, I made weekly trip to the local TG&Y to see what 45s singles were on the top ten that week. I had a small turntable in my room and would play one after another, dancing along. (I still have a stack of those in storage, no doubt melted into one big blob by now.) “Whip It”, “Total Eclipse of the Heart”, and “Physical” are a few that I remember buying.

Music today is different, in part because of the digital age. With iPods and iTunes, people don’t necessarily buy albums anymore – they only buy the songs they like. And if they follow the “if you like this, you may also like” that link, they can end up with some fairly eclectic playlists. There was a party for some young teenagers recently where they were using their iPod for the music. Their choices ran from The Who (60s), Van Halen (80s), to Red Hot Chili Peppers (90s), plus a lot of more modern stuff I didn’t recognize. They picked what they liked to hear. The music for them won’t be tied to any point in time for them – other than the point that they chose to download it.

My daughter is going to be eight soon and she still likes The Wiggles. (She doesn’t seem to notice when her more worldly friends roll their eyes at her) Being innocent isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but I’m thinking that maybe I need to introduce some more artists into the mix. I don’t want her to be a totally stunted socially. I may have to get on iTunes myself and start their musical education…



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